Things happened for a reason

Recently i started to realise one this very important view of life that is 'things happened for a reason'...of course the 'things' can refer to bad or good but normally the bad one will leave deeper impact therefore it is more vital for us to realize the reason for it to be happened....

Human tends to sigh and blame whenever they facing the negative side or failure in their
life...they will feel no happiness if they cant let go the fact or accept it...

Me,as a Homosapien, also tends to do the same mistakes whenever something happening not in favour of me...i will tend to sigh and feel sad...however, by realising that if we take that the unfavouring situation actually happening to let us gain something ( benefits such as appreciation, moral value, or some materialistic thing also will do) that we actually would never earn without gone trough it, you will start feeling that things actually is not that bad..trust me...

It is much better for one to accept than sitting there sighing and blaming god for the things that happened...nothing will change any better by doing the latter...if we can accept it with open heart and whisper with determined: 'yea god, i will accept your challenges and i know you send this here to make me stronger, i will prove it to you'. ..then, you will feel much much better..really, i tried it before..and after that, i also realized that i actually gaining advantages from a particular situation that defined as 'bad' when it happened in a very first place...

So, accept it, take a deep thought of it and you will realized 'Things exactly happened for a reason'..maybe some will disagree for this moment, but it takes time for people actually to reveal and understand things..is ok, where there is a will, there is a way...as long as you open up yourself and willing to find this out, happiness awaiting for you^^

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Do evil always win?

Hi, there has been some time i didn update my blog already..hehe..last few weeks bz with final exam as everyone else...my last paper was on 4th of may then d following days used for releasing tension of course...shoping is d main activity in d relaxing mission..hehe...

Neway, in this blog i just want to review my point of view bout d norm of dis life..the reality of human...last few days (also just b4 my last paper), my college had came out wif a list of residents who been choosen to continue staying in the college for next session..and guess what, my name is not on d list..many pple hardly believe dat but the fact is fact...

Ok, let me explain the way v can earn a place to stay in d college..in my resident college there are many projects and activities organized for us to participate.and by participating each of dem u will get merit which will contribute for ur staying in the college in the coming session..me, as 2nd year seniors admitted did not as active as most of the 1st year junior but my participant in the project cant be said to be insufficient as compare to many oths who get to stay...so wat is d problem? y i cant even get to earn a place in 3 peoples room eventhough many oths that just as active or mayb less get to stay in 2pple room(higher merit get to stay at 2 pple room den follow by 3)...


Then, i realize and found out some truth that make me so disapointed...the reason why some can freely relax for the whole year but at d same time still get to stay for next session is their face skin enough thick...in our HOPELESS system, when v applying room for next session we need to list out all d activities v had participated for the whole year OURSELVE..and when pass up the form i strongly believe the management will never get to found out that many are just boasting around(because they are not that hardworking to check though dey vow dey will...really sad case..)...so the outcome will be those who boast boldly will get to stay and those who participated and nvr boast, life gona be tough...

OMG..is it only through cheats n tricks people can sucess and stay high?those who honest and kind will always been stepped on and ill-treated? Then till one day dey really cannot stand it anymore and start learning to become more evil n cheaty so that can go as high as d former?Consequently this world will end up been filled with all those first situation type of pple?........cant blame them, they need to do so if want to continue earn a living on this earth...

I am very sure that all these POOR JUSTICE causing infinity of innocence been blamed and ill- treat every moment....what can i do..sigh.....