Things happened for a reason

Recently i started to realise one this very important view of life that is 'things happened for a reason'...of course the 'things' can refer to bad or good but normally the bad one will leave deeper impact therefore it is more vital for us to realize the reason for it to be happened....

Human tends to sigh and blame whenever they facing the negative side or failure in their
life...they will feel no happiness if they cant let go the fact or accept it...

Me,as a Homosapien, also tends to do the same mistakes whenever something happening not in favour of me...i will tend to sigh and feel sad...however, by realising that if we take that the unfavouring situation actually happening to let us gain something ( benefits such as appreciation, moral value, or some materialistic thing also will do) that we actually would never earn without gone trough it, you will start feeling that things actually is not that bad..trust me...

It is much better for one to accept than sitting there sighing and blaming god for the things that happened...nothing will change any better by doing the latter...if we can accept it with open heart and whisper with determined: 'yea god, i will accept your challenges and i know you send this here to make me stronger, i will prove it to you'. ..then, you will feel much much better..really, i tried it before..and after that, i also realized that i actually gaining advantages from a particular situation that defined as 'bad' when it happened in a very first place...

So, accept it, take a deep thought of it and you will realized 'Things exactly happened for a reason'..maybe some will disagree for this moment, but it takes time for people actually to reveal and understand things..is ok, where there is a will, there is a way...as long as you open up yourself and willing to find this out, happiness awaiting for you^^

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