For the merdeka weekend i have been invited to attend my friend's(subash) brother wedding...i agreed happily and looking forward it since i get the invitation on early of the month..the reason being i have never attended any indian wedding before and the urge of curiosity to know about all the culture and procedure of indian style wedding making me felt exciting when going through the whole process.
It is very kind of my friend that he given me this precious chance to experience through the whole and complete process of the wedding ceremony which roughly taken up three days...really appreciate his kindness very much^^..so i will roughly jot down the activities that i have joined for that three wonderful day..
First day:
We went to subash's house which just a stone throw away from mine at around 7.30pm..When we reached there, some prayer ceremony is already starting...the first part of the prayer will be done at the garden in front of the house...the objective of this prayer is somekind of curfew for the bridegroom from stepping of the house till the real wedding day which fall on 2 days after..this is to protect the bridegroom from any negative elements. Then, the bridegroom will sit at a small compound which surrounded with all kind of stuff that used for 'blessing' ceremony later..today it is the 'blessing' from mother side's relative that would be done...
Besides, swan and me get the honour to join the bride's side visiting and enjoyed the present giving part too since only ladies can do this part...the atmosphere at the bride's house is so happening and it is somekind like housewarming party..buffet is provided and the music is so luring because u will feel like shaking the body when u pass by the DJ and PA system area..there are a group of people who enjoyed themself dancing there and we didn join since v are still strange to that place..but then savithra (bridegroom's sis) said: dont worry, tomorow is our turn..haha
2nd day:
Went for jogging,breakfast and shoping at pyramid in the morning till noon...Had fun too though it is just normal stuff because gone through all that with swan and her cute and fun friend--Paul.. Then, we went to subash's place again around evening..that night more visitors attending and it is the dad's side relative turns to give blessing all..v enjoyed the yummy yummy food and had a dance too( i think i am somekind of jumping randomly compare to dance..haha..xp)..Help done some packing stuff then back to recharge ourself for the 'big' day..
3rd day:
The real wedding ceremony will be held at indian temple which i only get to watch at tv show normally..So today i can watch it live in front of me..wow, so exciting yo...Got up quite early on that morning since subash tell us to reach the temple at 9am..wore a special kind of semi-punjabi suit on that day...then ceremony started and have grabbed a precious experience and knowledge about indian culture there..After that, we had our indian style yummy lunch again at the temple and then back home fully filled with satisfication..hehe^^
**Funny thing is swan and me seems to be over excited by attending every single wedding ceremony process till our parents asked: Now actually is your friend's wedding or friend's brother wedding??.....hahahahahaha..Neway,nice one^^
Finally update blog with her (3 in 1 post)..hehe..i can imagine that other people feel weird to c u 2 overexcited..haha..
ReplyDeletehaha..so nice to read dis post! yaya..tru..n another new experience was,dat was da 1st time i study so-last-min.. noon exam, morning baru start studyin..2papers somemore..omg..hope dat was da 1st n last..hehe..anyway, a very good n fun n great experience..luckily got u n paul to sot geta wit me..thanks..mwah~
ReplyDeletehaha...yaya..real precious experience..awaiting for ur wedding den..den i lagi can enjoy gao gao dat time...hehe..'sub sub water' la for u the exam..hehe..
ReplyDeletenice experience....nex time u 2 can consider do like tis.hehe...
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